Getting aroused by feet - foot fetishism
Of all forms of fetishism, that of the feet is probably the best known that exists. Despite the fact that it is a fetish that objectively falls under the "label" paraphilia (sexual fantasies and behaviours that deviate from the norm), foot fetishism seems to be more socially accepted.
Foot fetishism goes a long way back in history and there are different variants of this form of sexual fetishism. For every foot fetishist, the reason may be different from what attracts him or her and possibly also excites in feet.
For example, there are foot lovers who get excited from (secretly) looking at feet, smelling, kissing, caressing and licking feet. One foot fetishist has a preference for the toes (and in between), while others find the soles, or the side of the feet, sexually attractive. Sometimes this form of fetishism mixes with BDSM. Think of "Trampling", where almost always a woman with either her bare feet or with shoes / boots with heels runs over the bare body of the foot lover. The balance of power is clearly present and the extent to which it is painful and or humiliating depends entirely on the Dom (of course, clear agreements have been made in advance about how far the Domina may go. The most simple is the traffic light system: Green - Continue harder, faster, more - Orange - Take gas back, softer or different - Red - Stop immediately).
Within a relationship, it can be an excellent match between two people, when you love it when your feet are massaged and caressed. What you often see with foot lovers is that the man likes to get a "footjob", which means that the penis is pulled off between the feet. There are quite a few films on this subject and it is highly recommended, if you are discovering these feelings with yourself, to look for them!
If you don't have a partner, you could consider putting an advertisement in a contact magazine or on a sex dating site. Nowadays, the better-sorted (online) sex shops have feet, with or without an entrance to penetrate, in super fine material such as cyber-skin. The emergence of the foot fetish can reveal itself early in childhood. Often when the first budding sexuality shows itself. American neurologist Vilayanur Ramachandran, originally from India, made the possible connection of the feet and genitals on the somatosensible homunculus. A homunculus is actually a reverse image of the body. The somatosensible layer includes sensory, pain, temperature and proprioceptive (posture and movement of body parts) stimuli. So with a possible "sensory crosstalk", that is, the improper stimulation from neighbouring areas, this would provide a simple explanation for foot fetishism. The foot is represented in the brain directly next to the genital zone. It is therefore easily conceivable that stimulation of the foot leads to quasi-genital stimulation.
Under no circumstances feel that you are "strange" or abnormal, because as long as others are not hindered by your sexual fetish, it can even be a form of relaxation, as we see in the experience of BDSM. Fortunately, we live in an age in which virtually every form of sexuality can be communicated in an adult manner.
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Mona Liza Verseijden
sexpower.online
Datum: 12-07-'19
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