1 year in lockdown ... let's play a game?
You have a partner and after a year (a year !!) sitting indoors together you sometimes get fed up with each other. What can you do? Yes, go for a stroll, sit in a separate room, you know it. But there is also another solution. What's that? A role play! Supposedly meet another man or woman and indulge in your fantasy. And that really doesn't have to be complete with outfit and beautiful dialogues. Nothing is mandatory, everything is allowed. Thinking up a whole scenario and then executing it again is just a little too much for many at once. However, sexy role play doesn't have to be such a hassle at all. Give it a try with these tips.
1 Figure out your fantasy
There's no point playing the submissive naughty secretary who gets punished by her boss if you don't find such situations arousing at all. Maybe you are excited to be the dominant character? Or maybe such power relationships don't do anything for you, but have you always dreamed of just walking into a "bar" (your kitchen) and having an adventure with a total "stranger". Knowing what turns you on is important before starting roleplay.
2 Share your fantasies with each other
Tell your partner about your fantasies. You may not find the same type of situation exciting, but agree to try both stories. Give and take, you know. And who knows, you might unexpectedly enjoy reenacting a hot scene with Daenerys and Khal Drogo? (for non GOT viewers: a handsome princess and a muscular warrior)
3 Remember there are no strict rules
When you think about role play, you may already see yourself wearing a seductive nurse's outfit and asking your partner in a high-pitched voice if he's not feeling well. That is possible, but it does not have to be that way at all. Roleplay can be done in so many ways. It really doesn't have to be very complicated. For example: you are back in your teens and need to be quiet because his parents are downstairs, talk in bed about situations that turn you on and act it out (a bit), or come home and pretend you're a stranger who's not feeling well and needs to lie down for a while, or a burglar you have caught and has to choose between sex or the police…. and so on. You choose what you like best.
4 You don't need a full outfit from the party shop
As we said, you don't necessarily have to wear a nurse's outfit - although of course there is nothing wrong with a naughty nurse. Just your sexiest set of lingerie and possibly a pair of suspenders can already set you in character. Or maybe as a blonde you suddenly feel like a completely different person? A wig, it is! On sites like AliExpress you buy a super nice package and attributes for no money, just take a look at it together. Have fun with it, shopping and dressing up can be exciting in itself.
5 Set boundaries
Playing a little bit is all well and good. But if your love starts spanking hard in the guise of an angry boss while you find that anything but exciting and above all derogatory and painful, you will soon be done with playing. Agree in advance where your limits lie so that you can avoid such embarrassing situations. A safe word is also useful here. Take a very ordinary word, such as "red", so that you can subtly indicate your boundary and the game can continue as usual.
6 You don't have to win an Oscar for it
No, you don't have to be Jennifer Lawrence to role-play. Nobody is watching and your performance will not be judged, so that stage fright is not necessary at all, although it is of course very understandable! Don't do anything that makes you feel too uncomfortable.
7 Laughter is allowed
Unlike white-screen actors, you are allowed to fall out of character if the situation gets a little too funny. As always in bed, laughter is also good for role play. Don't take yourself too seriously, it will all be much more fun. A moment of laughter relaxes, and that also brings that orgasm closer. If you can concentrate haha.
8 Keep it simple
Is the whole acting thing too much after all? Then you can also go for the simple version of roleplay: tell each other about your hottest fantasies in bed. The performance may be (for now) a bit too much to ask, but the thought alone can be very exciting.
Now that you're a little wiser in this area, I hope you'll use some of my tips! Have fun and I would love to talk to you about it in the chat. Talk to you soon!
Source: flair.be
Datum: 16-03-'21
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