The people who are blessed with an occasional orgasm, (It is not so obvious. This phenomenon is not for everyone.) Will confirm that you feel an excitement or an orgasm, between your legs. Your genitals are the center of your sexual feelings. Right?
 

It’s not. This appears to be in your brain. There are people who can even create an orgasm just by thinking. Others come (in their experience) in their left shoulder. How is that possible?
 

You are not horny with your mind, but with an evolutionally much older part of your brain. The Limbian system (or reptile brain). This part of your brain actually thinks 3 things. Is it dangerous? Can i eat it? Or can I have sex with it (reproduction)? This Limbian system is hidden under the twists of the cortex. To get ready, this cortex must not be too active. The temporal lobe (a part of the cortex that sits on both sides of your brain at the level of your ears) contains a network of brain cells that, when they become active, can disrupt communication between your genitals and feelings. In women it is even the case that their prefrontal cortex (where planning and reason are) must give 'permission' for intercourse. Remains this area too active by thinking about what was left, what is going on at work, whatever; then cumming is not going to happen. The prefrontal cortex is the absolute 'stop' button for women. A strong example of mindfulness is needed. You can't think and

cum at the same time.
 

For men it is often different: if their penis is stimulated long enough, almost every man will have an ejaculation at some point, even though he absolutely does not want to. That is because the reflexes of the backbone still work. Despite the brain trying to stop this. In addition, other nerves (those of the decentral nervous system) play a slightly larger role in men. These nerves do not run in a highway from an erogenous zone to the brain, but they fan out all over the body. This means that your entire body can change into 1 erogenous zone. Even without the intervention of the brain, they can still cause the 'right' sexual responses and even trigger an orgasm in people whose communication

between the brain and genitals (for example due to paraplegia) is disrupted.
 

An orgasm requires a lot of cooperation between the entire body and all the nerves and hormones in it. That is already a miracle in itself. But then there is also the way in which you developed your sexuality in your childhood. Children begin to explore their bodies at a young age and without any sense of sex. Boys are often later than girls, but getting an orgasm sometimes starts from the 6th year. Just think about all the stunt and flight work needed to come to an orgasm: the muscles you tighten, the place where you should or shouldn't be, the thought of something you wind up. Everything has been discovered over the years. This is not the case with everyone. For example, think a parent who has reacted extremely negatively to the child when it was doing this. This reaction may be fueled by one's own upbringing or beliefs. The child can be so scared and quit playing this game. Not even for that moment but also for all years thereafter. You may imagine that when you skip these stages of discovery, you will never discover how to come to an orgasm. This will only become more difficult later. Not experiencing an orgasm means that sex is also not rewarded with this. This can of course also influence the sex drive. If you do not realize what an orgasm feels like (and

certainly not how your body can induce this) it is really not easy to learn this later. Everything is possible of course. It takes an incredible amount of time and practice. Try to get ready if you really don't want to. This means that someone will have to masturbate for hours without knowing what they will achieve and without much interest in this. It is not all that simple. So you are one of the lucky ones with whom it seems to go without saying. Praise yourself and enjoy it!


Daisy Jacobs
sexpower.online

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Datum: 18-06-'19

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