The perfect labia

A lot of (young) women wonder, ashamed, anonymously on a forum: am I "normal", down there? It is often about what the labia look like: too long, protruding, too dark, too messy, uneven ... Some have had negative comments about their labia from a (rather disrespectful) bed partner. And more and more people are asking for a labia reduction at the plastic surgeon, in an attempt to create the perfect labia. But what are the perfect labia? What are at least "normal" labia? And is surgery the solution?

Plastic fantastic?

If you think you've seen pretty much everything in the field of plastic surgery now, well, in that case there is definitely a new "trend." Of course this is mainly in America for the time being, but as with all trends, it will also spread to Europe, the "Barbie vagina". Especially ladies with a complex about their labia, especially when the inner lips protrude, seem to fall for the arts of Dr. Ronald Blatt. This Chief Surgeon, practicing in New York, with expertise in vaginal surgery, has a considerable menu of procedures that he offers.

Who does not honor the small ...

Imagine you get to know a very nice man, well groomed: check! Hygienic: check! Attentive: check! So far so good! After you go out with him for the third time, other than just modest kiss, nothing has happened sexually, because yes, after all, you have learned from the previous agreements with other men and agreed with yourself: 'never get laid on the first date ', after the fourth glass of wine you now have something like that, yes !!! Let's do it!

Sexpower LIVE episode 3 - BDSM

This episode thee topic is "BDSM". What does it mean?Who does it? What is it? And how about communication between the people who practice BDSM?

What is BDSM?

We somewhat know BDSM from the "50 Shades of Gray" book series and, for example, the Netflix series "Bonding". For many people it is interesting to see and nice to try out as an addition to their "vanilla" sex life, as role-playing or soft SM. Other people take it further. For them it is a fixed element in their relationship or even a way of life. These people have a different experience of sexuality than the average person. It is often difficult for these people to share or talk about it and sometimes there is no acceptance of their (own) sexuality.

Why do we have sex?

We often put quite some pressure on sex: we prefer to do it often, it's supposed to keep our relationship healthy, and our sense of sex should show that we are healthy and attractive. But this idea is totally igmores an important question: why do I actually want sex? What do I want to achieve with it? The answer may seem simple at first. "For pleasure," for example, or "to feel connected to my partner." Or for relaxation. Or for a discharge. Or to feel attractive. Or to experiment. Or ... or ... or ...

Want to feel more? Slow down!

It is incredibly recognizable: we have ended up in a fun sexual situation with an attractive person, and then we suddenly - consciously or unconsciously - chase everything: getting an erection, self-cumming or the orgasm of the other, for example . And we are no longer very concerned with the pleasure that we could experience. Yes? Have you ever experienced it? Is that what sex is? Racing towards an orgasm with a set of predetermined actions?

Sexpower LIVE episode 2 - Swingers clubs

In this second episode of SexPower LIVE we talk about going to Swingers clubs. What can you expect? What to watch out for? And what do you need to know before diving into this sexy adventure?

Consultant in the spotlight: Mona

Dear everyone, my name is Mona, I saw the light of day in the early spring of 1968, with a powerful aria I was born, although my performance was for a select audience at that time. I grew up as an ...