Let's talk about YES!

It would be nice if legislation on rape in the Netherlands would be given a different form. Spain and Sweden have the rule "No yes, then it's no". Simple and clear. Below you will find ...

The renewed Beppy cup!

The manufacturer of durable tampons comes with an updated version of the menstrual cup. A brilliant and ingenious invention. The advantages according to Beppy: With the Beppy Cup, you are ...

Codependency in practice

Literally translated from English, codependency means mutually dependent. As far as is known, this term first appeared in the late 1950s, with the AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), to understand the behaviour that people around the alcoholic understand. Nowadays, we know that codependency can occur in various situations. How does it actually come about? And how can codependency be recognized?

FAKE?

Almost 60% (!) Of Dutch women faked an orgasm (27% of men also incidentally, in an American study). That is actually not surprising, with how important we usually find an orgasm. We are told everywher...

The mythical hymen and her "recovery operation"

"Are you still a virgin?" "When were you deflowered?" There is a lot to do about the first time sex. We have to take guys' word for it, but girls are supposed to prove that there has never been a penis in their vagina. "Is the hymen intact," the question is, especially among families who consider it important that a married woman has never had sex before - often for religious reasons. Sometimes girls are urged to have their hymen "repaired" surgically. But. Stop. Hold on. Dit alles berust op een flink aantal mythes. Wil je meer weten over het maagdenvlies, zo’n hersteloperatie en überhaupt het concept ‘maagdelijkheid’? Lees dan verder.

Seksdrive during quarantine

It is not surprising that, in an abnormal situation, something remarkable happens to our sense of sex. In corona isolation we suddenly have less or much more contact with our loved ones, with fear and frustration, with a lot of free time or a completely changed daily structure ... Not surprisingly, some of us now have much less, or much more, desire for sex. How does that work exactly?

Sex workers' corona questions

The coronavirus has a huge impact, both in the health of sex workers and customers, and in terms of finances. This blog tries to answer a number of questions. Much is still unclear about the government's financial measures. What is explained here is the current state of affairs in the Netherlands.

Tantra and sex

"Uh, tantra, that's uh, that sex thing?" This is the reaction I sometimes get when I say that tantra is an important part of my life. However, it usually remains silent. Presumably because the word "tantra" at the family dinner evokes uncomfortable feelings. Because in the public image, tantra is indeed often equated with sex, orgies and kink. Can tantra greatly enrich your sex life? Hell yes. Is tantra mainly about sex? No, it is not.

Sex workers squeezed by the Corona virus

Panic, and logical… where is this going and how long will it take. Nobody knows.