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The 10 best tips to keep things exciting in the bedroom as a couple!

When it comes to keeping the spark alive in a relationship, the bedroom is often overlooked. While some couples find themselves in a rut and feel like they can't continue with each other, others may be eager to try something new and exciting to keep the tension going. Whatever your situation, there are some great tips you can use to keep things exciting in the bedroom as a couple.

1. Get creative with role play - Role play is a great way to switch things up and add some excitement to your sex life. You don't have to go too crazy either, just pick a scenario you'll both enjoy and then act it out together. Whether teacher/student, boss/secretary or even doctor/patient, it's about stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new together!
 
2. Try New Toys - If you haven't explored the world of sex toys yet, now is the time! There are so many different types available to couples, from vibrators, cock rings, anal beads and more - so why not give it a try? Not only will they add something different to the mix, but they can help make things even more enjoyable for both parties!
 
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3. Use Clothes - Clothes don't have to stay on when it comes to spice things up in the bedroom! Instead of taking them off right away, why not try working them into your activities? For example, if you wear stockings or suspenders, use them during foreplay or if either of you has an old-fashioned tie, make that part of the scene too! Thinking outside the box can really help make things exciting again.
 
4. Make time for each other - This may sound obvious, but so often couples forget to make time together without work or family responsibilities. So why not set aside a night each week where you just focus on each other without any distractions? This can range from just talking about your day to naughty games or activities and sex - whatever works best for both of you!
 
5. Make sure to keep communication open - Communication is key when it comes to relationships and this should extend to the bedroom too! Don't be afraid to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't - this will ensure you both get what you want out of each activity, making it all the more fun for everyone involved!
 
6. Take Turns to Experiment - Some kind of balance between experimentation and certainty is always important in relationships, so why not take turns taking the lead when it comes to sexual activity? That way, one person doesn't always have to take the initiative while the other just follows - this helps create much-needed variety for couples who feel stuck in the same routine every night!
 
7. Go on dates - It's easy for any couple (married or not) to get absorbed in everyday life without paying enough attention to simply enjoying each other's company on their own terms - so why not regularly schedule "dates" with each other, away from home? Whether this means a romantic dinner or just walking around town for a few hours and talking about something other than work - this is a great way for couples to reconnect and still have a lot of fun!
 
8. Turn Up the Temperature - One tip that is often overlooked when looking at ways to keep things fresh between couples is turning up the temperature in their bedrooms (literally). Simply raising the temperature by half a degree Celsius can help create feelings of excitement and relaxation that make everything else easier - plus if you do it right, no one needs to know what goes on behind closed doors! Just don't worry about the energy bill for a while....
 
9. Spice up conversations- Conversation may seem like an odd thing when you talk about how to keep things interesting between two people, but there's actually a lot of potential here too! Why not try weaving innuendos into common conversation topics like sports news, current affairs etc. It's amazing how much difference a little extra flirting can make, especially when done right...
 
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10. Talk Dirty - Finally, don't underestimate the power of dirty talk between two people who love each other - if done right, this simple technique will help bring the emotion back between the sheets and the stakes significantly (in a really good way!). Make sure everyone involved is comfortable with the words being used - after all, there's nothing worse than someone feeling pressured to do something they're not ready for.
 
It's not always easy to keep things exciting in the bedroom, but these 10 tips should definitely help no matter what stage the relationship is at.
 

This blog is written by Bedfun.nl





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Datum: 27-12-'22

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