This tip comes from the gay community: Just take a moment to make sure all the water is clean and that no more water comes out. As for food, there is nothing special to do except "the obvious": Do not eat spicy curry dishes or bean dishes.”
 

A lady explained to me that she simply rinsed herself clean with an internal shower (such as from Lactacyd, just for sale at Kruidvat). This is of course a super practical tip for when you have to keep your hobby hidden for whatever reason.
 

Anal sex can be a preference for everyone. It is a big misconception that men who aspire to anal penetration are by definition homosexual. That's just bullshit. Just like one woman likes anal sex and the other doesn't. Men just have an extra surprise hidden in this region. The prostate! When stimulated, it can induce interesting sensations and even cause ejaculation (both with and without orgasm), without stimulating the cock. I know people for whom this is a godsend because they can no longer get a hard-on due to disability, medication or diabetes.
 

Personally, I think the act of achieving this is very similar to stimulating the G spot in women. Many transgender women refer to their prostate as their G spot. The prostate can also be found in approximately the same place. Depth is different per person (also in the case of the G spot in women, we also have a blog about this). A finger deep (5 to 10 cm) on the belly side.
 

In any case, start with enough lubricant. Pain is Ho! It's not necessary. If you feel pain, you are not relaxed enough. It's no use going through that. Try to relax more. Start slowly with a finger or a very small butt plug. Fingering yourself is never very practical because of the awkward angle, I always think. There are special toys for prostate stimulation. What I read a lot, both with Gspot stimulation and with Prostate stimulation, is the "come here" movement. Personally I don't care much for that. An extra pressure on the belly side by a slight curvature followed by a short but quick up and down movement of the toy or finger. This is also personal for everyone. It's a matter of trying what you like.
 

There comes a time when it feels like you need to pee. This is often followed by ejaculation. So the trick is not to stop. Nothing that cannot be cleaned with soap and water, so no worries. If you find this scary with a partner, just try it alone first until you understand better how your body works and what exactly happens. There are great fucking machines on the market so you don't even have to tire your arm.
 

Hopefully you can continue with these tips. If you have any questions, you can always consult one of

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Have fun!