What is the definition of a Cougar?
A Cougar is a more mature woman, who is between 40 and 60 years of age, who is completely financially independent of a man and who has remained well preserved.
Well-known Cougars are for example: Madonna, Demi Moore and in the Netherlands Patricia Paay is the figurehead of the Cougars. The goal is to score a younger, sexually active partner, also called 'Toy-Boy', whether or not in a dominant setting. Studies have shown that having a (sexual) relationship with a much younger partner also keeps you 'young' for longer.
Women who turn out to be Cougars are self-aware women, who no longer need a man of their own age, who (often) sags on the couch and zaps. However, there is also a shadow side to the life of a Cougar. The fear of being abandoned sooner or later for a 'green leaf'. That is why the average Cougar does everything in its power to stay in optimum shape. So she can be found a lot in the gym, with or without the guidance of a Personal Trainer. Sometimes she tries to prevent aging through cosmetic procedures. Above all, it is important for a Cougar to retain its 'prey' as long as it wishes to 'play' with it. Of course it is clear from the outset what the rules are. Pure lust or love? Although we sometimes cannot predict in advance whether lust will turn to love, after all, we (luckily) have no control over feelings yet!
As a starting Cougar there are many possibilities to get in touch with a Toy Boy. This can be done through dating sites, regular or sexually oriented, or by visiting couples clubs. The advantage of a swingers club is that you are in a safe setting as a woman and do not have to worry that your Toy Boy will give you an unannounced visit. Of course it is important, certainly in principle, to use condoms. After both have done an STD test, it can be decided in 'good faith' to omit the condoms from now on, but it is and remains a form of Russian roulette.
There are many younger men with a preference for mature women. Partly because they dare to let go completely, often have a lot of experience and are also open to experimental sex, such as trios, BDSM and swinging. The advantage of this type of relationship is that there are few obligations to each other. Obviously, people do take responsibility for safety, so that the other person is not burdened with a promotional gift. For the rest it is pure enjoyment with the capital P of Plaesure. For more information about this subject, you can always contact one of the therapists and / or consultants of ~ website ~
Mona Liza Verseijden
sexpower.online
Datum: 02-11-'19
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