Winterfantasy
You are in bed, your eyes are still sleepy when you wake up. It is still dark outside and you can hear the wind howling outside. If you put one foot outside the covers, you will soon notice that the winter weather can be felt right in the bedroom. It gives you shivers. Your movements woke up someone else in your bed, who was still asleep lightly. With a big yawn, he comes closer to you and gives you a warm hug. As he lies against you, his warm breath reaches your ear as he exhales. The sensation of it gives you shivers, but these are completely different shivers, and it makes you feel like it… Even in winter it manages to get hot, read along!
A warm feeling in the heat
In many places it is winter and that means shorter days, chilly winds and maybe even a lot of snow. Fortunately, there are also many good things that winter brings us. Just think of a crackling fire, hot chocolate and a very good excuse to stay in bed longer (if that fits your schedule, of course). A soothing cup of tea is just as delicious during the spring or summer. But in winter, there are a few things that help you relax even more than your hands around a warm cup filled with your favorite spice blend.
Heat is enhanced when it gets colder, which is true of all elements of life, but it works especially well in your bedroom. Various studies have even shown that you enjoy sex more and that you get an orgasm more often if you wear cold socks during sex in a cold environment. If you start from this fact, your whole body actually has enormous potential to act as an erotic agent during the winter. After all, you are a warm-blooded creature.
Winning the heat
The human body likes to maintain a temperature of around 37 degrees. That is a lot warmer than the temperatures you encounter in the winter, so you actually have an advantage if you play sexual sensation games during the colder months.
If you and your partner (s) do like to play with different sensations, then the time is right to let go. A blindfold and your breath can work wonders in anticipation and erotic tension creation. Throw in some handcuffs and you create the perfect kinky adventure.
You can also use winter to involve regular things or everyday events in your sexual adventure. For example, we already talked about hot drinks. If your partner is already a bit familiar with sexual sensation games, it is best to have a cup of tea at hand (after permission from your partner of course)
Tell them it is tea, but keep the aroma a secret, so you work with the element of surprise, the scent of peppermint, something fruity or a delicious winter blend. Between normal breaths and warm licking and sucking, you can take some sips of tea to make your breath (and your mouth) even warmer. Peppermint also gives a tingling effect, for even more effect, put a peppermint in your mouth while giving oral sex. Then try to be as creative as possible with this excited, super warm breath and hot oral talent. If your partner wants it (and you do it gently) you can also put a semi-cooled cup on the skin after the tea is finished, for even more variety.
Or you go for coffee if you prefer those aromas. We don't recommend using hot chocolate, the idea is appealing (mmm), but the drink is often heavy on the stomach and it doesn't make your mouth smell nice in general. Then you know. I would say mulled wine!
More great ideas
If the idea of warmth appeals to you, but you are not much into using drinks, there are many other ways to take advantage of the warm pleasures this winter. Wax candles, for example, are a good option, especially if they are also special massage candles, which enable you to give a hot oil massage and are nice and kinky at the same time. Speaking of oil, a lovely warm oil massage can make you quite hot on a cold evening. Make sure that it is also warm in the room itself, otherwise it is a lot less comfortable to lie without clothes, even if the person is very spoiled.
If you are a fan of taking a hot bath then it might be an idea to take one along with some nice water resistant vibrators. Make sure you also have lubricant on hand so that the friction stays fine. Water and sex aren't always the best combination in that regard. A warm bath in itself is great for a sexual warm up, but it is also wonderful to recover after an intensive sex session.
That said, we can't forget to also discuss the most groundbreaking sex toy invention: heat-up vibrators! These toys can be adjusted to your favorite temperature, so that they can feel like a warm embrace or an explosive experience.
You can't just run to the store for the latest technical gadget now, but you can order it online. Or you can also place your own fine toy (made of glass or steel) in a container with warm water to warm up. That works amazingly well, literally sensational. You can also put your favorite toy (not too long and on a towel!) On the heater.
The conclusion
You change your outfit according to the seasons, so why not do that with your sex life? The nights are colder, but use them to find out what is sexually possible together and go on an adventure in your bedroom. Enjoy and have fun!
Source: duskmagazine.com
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Datum: 15-01-'21
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