Winterfantasy

You are in bed, your eyes are still sleepy when you wake up. It is still dark outside and you can hear the wind howling outside. If you put one foot outside the covers, you will soon notice that the winter weather can be felt right in the bedroom. It gives you shivers. Your movements woke up someone else in your bed, who was still asleep lightly. With a big yawn, he comes closer to you and gives you a warm hug. As he lies against you, his warm breath reaches your ear as he exhales. The sensation of it gives you shivers, but these are completely different shivers, and it makes you feel like it… Even in winter it manages to get hot, read along!

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Stealthing

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Prostitution ban?

I am dumbfounded. Paid sex is outdated, says the CDA. The party thinks it should be banned.

Swallow or not?

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Aroused or not aroused?

My first blog is about a pretty old song. I thought about it when I was thinking about the difference in sex drive between men and women. How? I'm going to explain it to you, and I don't think it's going the way you think. Read the text (in Dutch) or follow the link (and come back, eh) and I'll tell you more.

Beyond the stereotype

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